If you are the mother of the bride, you are probably asking two questions: will I look too dressed up, and will I be comfortable for ten hours? A cape answers both. Here is why it works, and what to pair it with.
The mother of the bride or groom has a unique brief. You will be in the formal photos, on your feet for hours, possibly in a church and then in a warm reception room. You want to look elegant and current without competing with the bride. Many mothers reach for a matching jacket by default, but a jacket can feel stiff and dated. A beaded cape is a softer, more modern answer.
Coverage without a jacket
A cape covers the shoulders and upper arms, which is ideal for a religious ceremony or a cooler venue, but it does not restrict movement the way a fitted jacket does. You can hug, dance and lift your arms for photos without anything pulling at the seams. Because it fastens at the collar, it stays put without needing to be held like a wrap.
Elegant without competing with the bride
Choosing a colour
Traditionally the mother of the bride avoids white and ivory, which belong to the bride. Good options are:
- Black or charcoal for evening and black tie weddings. Elegant and easy to pair with any dress colour.
- Silver or gunmetal over navy, grey, dusty blue or lilac dresses.
- Gold over emerald, burgundy, champagne or black for a warm, celebratory look.
If the wedding has a colour scheme, ask the couple. A metallic cape usually sits comfortably with any palette.
Pairing it with your dress
- A simple sheath or column dress lets the beadwork shine. Avoid heavily embellished dresses underneath.
- Sleeveless or cap sleeve dresses are ideal. The cape adds the coverage.
- Midi and maxi lengths both work. A longer cape suits a floor length gown.
Comfort through a long day
Capes are free size and sit on the shoulders rather than fitting the body, so there is no tightness across the back or arms. It is easy to take off for dinner and put back on for the evening, and it packs flat in its box for travel to a destination wedding.
A gift idea for her
Brides often choose a special gift for their mother or mother in law to wear on the day. A beaded cape is personal, wearable and lasts well beyond the wedding. Every piece ships free worldwide from Melbourne. Browse black, silver and gold beaded capes.
Not sure which one suits your outfit? Send a photo of your dress through our contact page and I will give you an honest suggestion.
Anita
Beaded Capes, Melbourne